Week of September 18th 2017


Video: Projecto Luxuria

Wax on wax on wax…we’re in love!


This week in kink, September 18th, 2017

Sex Machine Museum, kink up your apartment, and Folsom Fair gets push back from Facebook.


BDSM Terms and Definitions

Is this a complete list of “all the things” you need to know as you enter the world of kink? Absolutely not. These are some terms I believe cover many basics that you may come across as you start your journey.


How to Host Your Own Play Party

You don’t have to be an event planner extraordinaire in order to throw your own play party.

An example of very heavy bruising or "marking"

Marking in BDSM

“Marking,” in our lifestyle, is a very broad term. It can refer to the temporary marks of the cane, it might mean writing something like “Master’s Slave” with a Sharpie or it could mean a tattoo or brand of ownership.


Erotica: Spin around the block

Hank was giving her that look. Maddie’s eyebrows knit together as she tried to read his energy. Their D/s relationship was always kept behind closed doors. In front of guests, he generally treated her the way one would expect a loving wife to be treated.

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