Archives for September 2015

Welcome to our second edition!

Last week was a busy one getting the site off the ground. A huge thanks to my fellow contributors anniebear, Baadmaster, Phi and Jenn for their efforts to get it launched. We had over 1,000 visitors to the site last week, which is fantastic for our first week. Thank you all for the wonderful feedback and messages of support. And of course to Jenn’s dad who posted the … [Read more...]

Clean Slate

The idea of punishment as a form of reprimand is not new. It's been a fixture in many D/s dynamics as long as they have existed. For myself, punishment is a double-edged sword. On the one hand I find it to be a necessary part of my D/s dynamic. On the other, there is the associated shame that comes along with it; the shame in having to be punished in the first place. In recent … [Read more...]

It’s ok to be dominant

Defining "D-type": general term I use to encompass those that identify as a Dominant, Master, Mistress, Goddess, Trainer, Top, Owner, Daddy/Mommy, etc. D-types in the BDSM community are those that hold the power or control that their s-type surrenders, or yields, to them. Why would someone want to assume this great responsibility? The answers will vary depending on who … [Read more...]

BDSM – Where do I begin? Part Two

The first article concentrated mainly on the basics of BDSM - basically the what, where and vocabulary of entering the lifestyle. I might add that reading books on the lifestyle will give you additional perspective as to what BDSM entails. has a bunch of them – just punch in “bondage books” and a whole myriad of great BDSM reading is there for a quick … [Read more...]

Erotica: Resort Fantasy

When I walk into that room, I have the power. That's because I know and he doesn't. It'll be cute the way he thinks it was his decision to approach me. As if I hadn't started drawing him in the moment I'd selected him from the crowd. As if I hadn't already spent hours sending signals and recognizing their reception. Patient. Laughing. Legs crossing. A glance. A sip from my … [Read more...]