Archives for January 2017

Subbie Snap

Up until now, we have concentrated on the broad principles that make relationships work. Communication, negotiation, limits and the like have been covered extensively. But what about the little, nagging things that can gnaw at the fabric of even the most solid Master/slave relationship? What are they? How can you avoid falling prey to them? Let’s start with one I call “subbie … [Read more...]

Spirituality of D/s

And now for something completely different! With the beginning of the New Year, I thought I would take a moment to reflect on what I believe to be the spirituality of D/s. One of the aims of the spiritual realm is to put the mind and spirit at peace. Meditation is one way to banish those disturbances and emotional ripples that are so jarring in our daily lives. Studies … [Read more...]

This week in kink, January 16th, 2017

With the recent shuttering of's adult services classifieds, a vacuum has formed for professional Dommes and submissives to connect with clients. Backpage was the preferred channel for many in the BDSM profession- the vast majority of whom comply with the law and do not offer sex as part of their services. A raft of new sites have sprung up focusing on this more … [Read more...]

Video: How to give a spanking

For those new to spanking, our friends over at Perverted Podcast made this super helpful video. You can also hear more info, fun stories, and great jokes on their weekly podcast. How to give a spanking from Perverted Podcast … [Read more...]

BDSM Scene Idea: Diaper Play

This scene idea could be listed under the category of "taboo play" because depending on the person, it dances along the lines of age play and infantilism which frankly can freak some people out who have very little experience or knowledge on the subject. Just remember to withhold any negative judgment, bearing in mind that what is taboo for one may be normal for another as long … [Read more...]