Trust in D/S Relationships

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There are some people out there that think that being a submissive means that we will do anything a dominant says. But that is clearly not the case. Submission is not given lightly, and it usually is only given to those that are deserving of that submission. The key ingredient that makes a submissive willing to give himself or herself over to a Dom in any capacity is trust. … [Read more...]

Erotica: Good Girl, That’s All For Now – Part 2

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Did he really just leave me waiting for him only to blow me off? Everything inside me was boiling hot. I was mad but also another feeling I wasn't quite familiar with before. Why was I so eager to please this man I had only met a few hours before. Why did I even care what he thought? As I laid there still staring at my phone, just waiting to see those these little dots pop … [Read more...]

This week in kink, October 16, 2017

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Researchers are now tying Bondage as well as S&M sex to relaxing activities such as golf because it is just as relaxing and creates a sense of adventure. We think so too - Read All About it Here. Polyamory, Bondage and Feminism...Oh my! The Guardian serves up a very interesting read on the Wonder Woman story. It's worth a read here. This article taunts us with … [Read more...]

The Power of Punishment

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How many of us have continually blamed ourselves for things we have done in the past? How many of us have had a partner remind us of our mistakes in a sarcastic or passive aggressive manner? I feel the answer would be “yes” for most of us. It’s human to have emotions that make us wants to hold onto things. It’s normal to make a mistake, blame others, and feel bad for what you … [Read more...]

DUNGEON ON A BUDGET

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With a lot of new kinksters entering this lifestyle, many of them Millennials, putting a home dungeon together can be quite expensive. And if you live in a city that does not have a commercial dungeon, then one would have to figure out a way to get the feel of a BDSM play space economically. Thus this article. The key to any cost-effective home dungeon is being inventive. … [Read more...]