Archives for January 2018

Part 4: How Slavery Can Reduce Anxiety

Thank you to everyone that has been following my reduction of anxiety series. (If you've missed any parts of this series you may read them here: Part I, Part 2, Part 3). As promised, I am going to finish this series by going into a very specific type of slave training, meditation, subspace, and some assignments my Master has given me. Training your slave to get into a calmer … [Read more...]

The Punishment Manual – Part I

Most D/s articles on the Internet talk about punishment in terms of spanking. “If you do not obey, I will spank you.” But how does this work if the submissive or slave actually likes to be spanked? Here we will catalogue punishments you can actually use in the real time training of a slave/submissive. This will be one of my longest articles. But I wanted to start the year off … [Read more...]

The Red Chair ~ A Cuckold’s Story – Part 2

On the way to the club, Alexa’s mind wandered to the image of Ron waiting for her later in the red chair.  Her heart filled with mischief thinking of the gift she left for him that would seal and commence the reality of promises that up to now had only been to him fantasies.  She smiled and felt the rush and heat of lust run through her core as she thought of the perfect man … [Read more...]

To Top or Not To Top

As the New Year is close at hand, I wanted to end the year answering some readers’ questions. Rather than write in the abstract, responding to real life questions makes it so much more personal. Here is a question that, I think, everyone in the lifestyle – from beginner to expert -- has pondered. Every time I ask my Dom for something -- like a McDonald's hamburger -- or make … [Read more...]

New Year, New Kink?

It's cliche, but the beginning of the year is still a great time to plan out your goals for 2018. Perhaps this year you want to experiment more, get into a new relationship, go to more dungeons...the world is your oyster. I was looking into my own goals for 2018 and I came across a pretty awesome article, so I thought I would share it with you all. 1. Share a Fantasy Tell … [Read more...]