This week in kink, April 30, 2018

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Former Dominatrix, Kasia Urbaniak, opens a school in NYC in order to empower individuals using what she learned as a Dominatrix. Click here to read more about her school. 6 of the Most Common Sexual Fantasies (according to sex therapists) among men and women. Click here to read more. Learn more about HuCow, the Fetish that imagines women as cows. Click … [Read more...]

One Size Does Not Fit All

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I think one thing we can all agree on, whether beginner or experienced, is that the "one size fits all" approach to BDSM doesn't work. Sorry to say, there is no universal way to do BDSM. (That would be too robotic anyway.) Each person has his/her own needs; the way people interact with one another is totally unpredictable. As it would be impossible to look at different personal … [Read more...]

Erotic Trapeze Performance about Domination and submission

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No pain, no gain- Double trapeze performance from Jowy on Vimeo. … [Read more...]

Ernest Greene and Nina Hartley Interview on The Truth About O

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Slave Bunny: Can you tell us in your own words what the piece is about?   Ernest: What you're seeing here is a segment of a new book I'm writing, working title, The Truth About O, that is a collection of both personal experiences with the individuals involved and recollections of those who were members of one of Europe's actual existing societies of O. My contact there … [Read more...]

The Initiation of Cora: Part 1

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The dark desire is made up of feelings we normally resist. It is an ambivalent and intense form of pleasure. And it is addicting.”  – Alexander, the Consigliere.”   This story is taken from my life. I have changed only names and locations for the protection of those who have meant so much to me. I hope to help the willing reader understand us all better. I recognize … [Read more...]