Archives for April 2018


In our “Fifty Shades/Internet/New Guard” BDSM world, major changes are to be expected. Some, obviously, are good; others not so. And as long as we never lose an insistence on safety, we can examine the changes in an objective way – as opposed to a “get that ball out of my yard” blanket hatred of all things new. I like to spotlight those rituals, traditions and customs that … [Read more...]

Kholine: Nude Ballet Pt II

Kholene: Nude Ballet Pt II from Kholene on Vimeo. … [Read more...]

Part 1: Annie’s Secret

Good girls will fool you every time, if you let them. Annie was good and no matter how much I looked for cracks in her porcelain I couldn’t find any. Never had to tell her something twice, never saw her lift her chin and look down her nose because she wasn't happy with some declaration I'd made. I knew she was for me the moment I slipped my hand into hers. We were synergy … [Read more...]

This week in kink, April 9, 2018

Can BDSM/Fetish type sex ruin your relationships? This article dares to dive into whether or not BDSM and kinks ruin relationships. For most of us, this question is almost laughable, but this article delves into how the general public feels about how BDSM and Fetish affects relationships should you not be on the same page as your partner. Read more here. Digital … [Read more...]

Innovative Sex Research Explores the Psychological Dynamics of Kink Sexuality

Researchers hope to expand project from 3000 participants to over 10,000 in the next 3 months. Want to understand more about your own Kink fantasies and support the largest Kink-focused research project of its kind? My research colleagues Dr Jeremy Thomas, Dr. D J Williams social scientists from Idaho State University and Dr Emily Prior, Director of the Center for … [Read more...]