Archives for July 2018


Last week, right here on, I offered newbie Dom/mes fifteen tips.  But what about the more experienced among you? Many of you have gotten to a more advanced phase in your BDSM journey. It is at precisely this stage, when you know a lot but still have some questions, that you might need some pointers. These are issues that you might not want to talk to fellow … [Read more...]

The Pleasures of BDSM

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A Special Treat for Donna: Part 2

Click here to read Part 1 Madame went to her email to comb through the dozens of responses she had received.  The large majority were complete duds, of course. Some with no pics at all, some offering nothing but tiresome dick pics, or worst of all, those hairy waist-down panty boys.  Yuck. There were also the usual functional illiterates for whom spelling and … [Read more...]

The Great Escape

With the pressures of everyday life and everything that goes with it, people are seeking out more and more ways to unwind and destress. Something to take them out of themselves in the way of escapism. Someone to take control of their mind, body, and soul- whether that be a full on BDSM experience with rubber and all the trimmings or a simple bit of role play and an over the … [Read more...]

The Sexiest Thing You Can Write

In 2011, I stumbled upon my first Dominant on OKC. Almost immediately he sent me to various sites to investigate Dominance and submission. For about three weeks before we met, I devoured any site that hinted at anything to do with BDSM. I thought a whole lot of it was weird and wonderful. That first Dom was one of the good ones. He tried his best to help me navigate this … [Read more...]