Archives for September 2018

Nature or Nuture

Much of what is written about this lifestyle concerns the underlying basis of Dominance and submission. Are they inherent or acquired characteristics? If they are acquired, how does one go about attaining them? Can anybody learn to be a Dominant or submissive or is it "in the genes?" Most of my observations here are the result of interviews with lifestylers I personally … [Read more...]

THE ELECTROPLAY PRIMER-AN EXCERPT FROM AYZAD’S BDSM: A GUIDE FOR EXPLORERS OF EXTREME EROTICISM

Disclaimer – The following excerpt does not include any basic safety instruction… because they were extensively addressed in the previous pages and chapters of the book already. Please remember to apply all the usual communication, negotiation, and safeword techniques when playing with advanced practices like electroplay, and make sure you are proficient with them before … [Read more...]

Interview with Kirsten from Chronic Sex

Can you tell us a little about your background? How did you get involved in this line of work? I’ve been disabled/chronically ill since I was five years old. Throughout high school, I was that friend who would go with friends to Planned Parenthood and talk to them about their sex lives or being risk-aware.   How did Chronic Sex come about? In college, I … [Read more...]

Surrendering To Her

“Ready” by Sir Render Original reference from stockingsandsubmission.tumblr.com Commissioned as an avatar piece I love it when you are blindfolded. Surrendering your vision to me is such a beautiful expression of your submission. There is nothing I find quite as appealing as knowing that you are there, wearing what I have chosen for you, unable to see what I am wearing … [Read more...]

This week in kink: September 17, 2018

“Displaying Art" by Sir Render Original reference from www.superbound.com Model Victoria Learn how to make consent sexy from Mistress Velvet Click here to read more “A Present” by Sir Render Original reference by petite deviant.tumblr.com There are so many differences between what 50 Shades perpetuates and what BDSM is really about Click here to … [Read more...]