Archives for December 2018

The First Shaky Steps of a Newly Hatched Subsadist

I've been thinking about sadism quite a bit lately. It is conceptually fascinating.  It can live inside just about anyone and range from the smallest blossoming enjoyment of another's pain to enoying creating pain in others as long as the recipient finds pleasure in it, all the way up to those who need to restrain themselves from causing real damage. I've talked some … [Read more...]


Model: Lady Valencia Shot by: DK @dk_88_la I could tell the whole drive back to the apartment how badly she wanted to know what was waiting for her, but I had to give her credit for not asking. There was a wistful, thoughtful expression on her face as we turned off the freeway, down one residential street and then another, and she bit her lip in a way that I found … [Read more...]

Discipline Even When He or She Isn’t Around

Hello everyone! I hope you are all doing well. I have talked to some people in the lifestyle recently that think that being a submissive of any kind is just about being micromanaged and doing what the D-type says in their presence. While this kind of dynamic can be a reality, the fact of the matter is, is that the submissive should still hold themselves accountable and … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair – Expectations, Rights, and Obligations – Part 2

For Part 1 Click Here As the new year approaches, most of us are thinking about the year gone by and looking forward to the future. Many of us will be considering our New Year’s resolutions: How we’d like to improve ourselves and our relationships going forward. It’s the perfect time to continue the discussion we started in the December 17th edition of “Kink Weekly”. If … [Read more...]

Ask Baadmaster!

Model: Lady Valencia Shot by: DK @dk_88_la In our second installment of ASK BAADMASTER! I will be answering an important question – what are the legal consequences of marking a submissive.   Reader: I love it when my Domme marks me, like with a cane or a crop, but we’re both nervous about the legal ramifications. What if people see the marks? Should I hide them, and … [Read more...]