Archives for March 2019

STI’s and Immunodeficiency

I see educational posts about STI's every now and again.  I think that education is excellent.  While I'm no expert, I think the current method of showing video slides of worse-case outbreaks is the kind of public information that can really hurt people.  Yes, that's what my now-21-year-old reported as his sex-ed from high school. So my main concern when reading such … [Read more...]

This week in kink news: March 18, 2019

Check  out these awesome Pleasure Chest classes in Los Angeles, Ca! March 20, 2019 Impact Play: Spanking, Flogging, Caning Oh My! With Niko -- 8-10pm FREE Learn the finer (and rougher) points of impact play at this workshop. We’ll also cover negotiation, safety, types of hits, and the hows, whys, and wheres of floggers, paddles and whips. Sunday March 24th, 2019 … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair-Cultivating The Best Submission Possible For Your Relationship

Over the past couple of months, I’ve been introducing you to my approach to Service-Oriented D/s dynamics. We’ve discussed the intent of submission as well as the roles of both the dominant and the submissive. We’ve looked at obligations and responsibilities within the context of power dynamics and discussed submission as a form of commitment and dedication. If you haven’t read … [Read more...]

Is Planning Good Or Bad?

A little bit about me. I’m approaching my mid-fifties. I had my first exposure to BDSM when I was 16, from a magazine. No pictures, just text. I’m not a professional writer, but I love sharing my experience. However, I always say, if it works for me doesn’t mean it will work for you. If it doesn’t work for me, it doesn’t mean it won’t work for you. So, I’m happy to share … [Read more...]

Excerpt from TylerRose.’s book Purgatory

He sat to wait and sip his bourbon, having no doubt she would come to him. He’d heard her door close half the hour earlier. As he was getting a refill, two raps on the door stopped his heart. Okay, so he had been anticipating her more than he’d previously admitted. A breath to calm himself and he opened the door to find her more lovely than ever he’d seen. Except, perhaps, … [Read more...]