Archives for September 2019

Reclamation: What Is It And Why Do We Need It?

I recently came across a new concept I was unfamiliar with:  reclamation. From my understanding, it is based in the Stag and Vixen play, which is essentially a respectful “borrowing” of the female, who is then returned and is intimately reclaimed by her partner. I found the concept interesting. It brings focus back on the primary couple. I get how that could seem … [Read more...]

Trouble With The Law

She drove home nervously, checking her mirrors almost compulsively, back roads dark, no street lights to relieve the weight of sky.  Her anxious hand fluttered away from the steering wheel to smooth the tiny skirt against her thighs. She jumped and her heart began to pound when she saw flashing lights in her rearview mirror. *Perhaps it is for a criminal, or a fire, … [Read more...]

Being New

Being new to the Kink Community can be a pretty terrifying thing, particularly those with any timidity, uncertainty or social anxiety.  It can be a scary thing to realize you have desires which defy societal norms, let alone to venture into a community full of people doing so, many of who have a great deal of experience or have been part of their local scenes for many … [Read more...]

BDSM On The Road

My girl and I are getting ready to go away on vacation (to Scotland, if it matters). And sure, we're planning to see the sights, eat the food, drink the drinks, and experience the countryside. But we're also planning more than a bit of kinky, intimate time for ourselves because, well, what's a vacation for? However, given that we're flying overseas, it's not really practical … [Read more...]

Ask Baadmaster!

As one who met my current slave, and many lifestyle friends, online, I believe the Internet is the greatest tool ever devised for meeting fellow kinksters. In my case, for example, it would be difficult to approach a woman at a supermarket and ask, “Are you a submissive?” At best, I would get a blank stare. I would probably have to use this line on a hundred women before I … [Read more...]