Archives for September 2019

Locktober: A Treat For All

It’s the month often associated with pumpkins, the changing of the leaves, and oh yes, and trick or treat. The month is truly a treat for those adults who decide to partake in the tradition less often talked about: Loctober. Yes, a whole, glorious 31, non-stop, no-being-poked-in-the-back-in-the-middle-of-the-night, no boner, chastity play month. This custom, which started … [Read more...]

Ask Baadmaster!

Occasionally questions are submitted to me that, although not a common problem, cannot be ignored. You might call them “break your heart” type queries. The following issue was very heartfelt, and was so very specific to the BDSM world, that I thought I might be of some help.  So here goes: Reader: I’ve been without a Master for two years. I’d love to be back subbing, which … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair – Female Dominance and Role Reversal

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  I’ve recently heard the term “Role Reversal” used in the context of female-led power dynamics and it struck me that this is … [Read more...]

A Letter To Sir

I have openly written about being in a closed poly unit.  I've spoken of my wife of a decade now who has split personality and the subsequent babygirl I got from that.  I probably have droned on endlessly about both of my wives and my husband. They are the center of my world; both in kink and outside of it.  Everything I do is for them.  In turn, they keep me sane.  It is … [Read more...]

Thunder Storm

She pulled the blanket up around her a little tighter with the long roll of thunder.  She snuggled into the furry throw- it smelled like him. He was so affectionate, truthfully he was becoming a bit of an addiction. Her phone lit up.  Her book tumbled to the floor as she twitched in response to the vibration on her lap. Thump! She eyed the book, and it closed on its … [Read more...]