Archives for December 2019

Enhancing Holiday Calm

I stumbled across an advent calendar for submissives recently.  Knowing this time of year can be hectic and full, I impulsively downloaded it, the small price one that seemed worth the reminder it will hopefully give me. It seems that this time of year is one which encourages joy and love as well as the opposing feelings, pain and misery, often depending on the outlook of … [Read more...]

This week in kink news: December 9 , 2019

Click here to learn about the best BDSM starter kits! Read how sobriety and BDSM go hand in hand Click here to read more Check out how The Taillor Group makes sex work safer in Bushwick Click here to find out more Have some kinky news to share? Tell us about any upcoming BDSM events, new products, dungeon openings / closings, … [Read more...]

Ask Baadmaster!

Reader: I'm a new Domme, and I just met an experienced submissive that I like. How do I proceed so I don't make mistakes, look like an "idiot," and lose his respect? If there were a “Grand Dominant Council,” this body would have as its motto, “Honesty isn’t everything, it is the only thing.”  (And being honest, they would credit Vince Lombardi for this paraphrased credo!) … [Read more...]

Know Them By Their Deeds

There is an undeniable power of reputation on the scene. We judge people not just on their appearance, skills and huge collection of toys, but also their reputation. What do people say, what stories have they heard, have they performed at an event, given a demo? Some of us will seek out a play partner entirely based upon their reputation. If you are chatting to friends who … [Read more...]

Catching Lightning In A Jar

She crawled nude onto the table nervously, stretching out prone with her back facing upwards. Shadows hid the man's face from her as he unpacked what looked to be a leather medical bag.  He withdrew bundles of leather held together with a thong, a strand of Christmas decoration, and some bits of dangling jewelry, setting them to the side as if they were implements in a … [Read more...]