Archives for December 2019

Romantic BDSM – Degradation

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Rika’s Lair-Keeping Your Dynamic Under Wraps

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  I often get asked if there are techniques that can be used to keep an active dynamic hidden from prying eyes: Kids, families, … [Read more...]

Happy Polydays!

Tis the season…For disaster? For long distance trips? Putting up with family members you only see once a year? No, not those things (though they don’t help), I mean the very hectic and stressful Polyday Season™. The time of the year where I consider just signing out of Google Calendar and letting it all go. But that’s not possible. Oh no, not with a polycule. We … [Read more...]

Who’s Fantasy Is this Anyway?

He sat watching, wondering why they were moving around so much. They were shifting and bouncing around in their chairs like water hopping on a hot frying pan. They sounded like a flock of gulls squawking. He figured most were a bit old for the first day of school jitters. Three minutes to the hour, the instructor walked in. Her footfall was distinct, a high heel. "Please?" He … [Read more...]

Ask Baadmaster

Of all the questions submitted to me, the most popular ones are in the long distance category. Likely this is because in the Internet age, most people in every category meet online. The following problem is one I hadn't seen before, so here goes: Reader: I’m debating traveling to visit a guy I met online, but I'm terminally afraid of rejection. Though I’ve kept nothing from … [Read more...]