Archives for February 2020

This week in kink news: February 17, 2020

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Popping The Pussycat

“I promise you we’ll get there,” he said gently, taking her hand from his crotch to put it atop his shoulder instead. “In my own time and in my own way. That is the Gar in me. I don’t want or need for you to do anything for me. All I want is for you to respond naturally, however what I do inspires you. Whatever noise, whatever movement. That is where my pleasure lies. Don’t put … [Read more...]

The Great D/s Parent Trap

As long as I’ve been on my kink journey, I have remained steadfast in one notion: I want to be catered to. I want to be put first and my happiness right next to it.  I often dreamed of having an equally OCD submissive who could clean my home from top to bottom, maid’s uniform, or panties at the very least, being shown just how I like towels folded and knows the toilet paper … [Read more...]

The Ethics Of Talking About Our Problems

One of the things I love about my local community is how active the Telegram network is.  I see this as both wonderful and full of potential pitfalls. We have the opportunity to get to know each other really well and have split off groups for specific interests - foodies, gamers, littles, pets, crafters, poly people, kink-adjacent vending, an event hub, and more additional … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair-Please and Thank you

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  This morning, I received a PM on Fetlife from a woman who is new to dominance. She was a switch in past relationships, but found … [Read more...]