The Joy of Watersports

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After writing about the 1950’s for the last few weeks, I would like to switch gears completely.

My Master and I have found watersports to be a very bonding experience. I want to talk more about this topic to not only show readers how fun it can be, but also how it can build intimacy.

Before I met my Master, water sports were always a hard limit for me. But because I developed such immense trust and vulnerability with my Master, my hard limits slowly became soft limits, and then not even limits at all.

I wanted to give my Master what I thought I would never give to anyone. I wanted to show him much I trust him and how much I want to give him everything I have. I wanted to show him I was willing to push myself to give more and more of myself every day. I wanted him to know that he could ask anything of me and I would be happy to serve him in whatever way he needs.

Also, I wanted to connect with my Master using one of the most personal forms of play I could think of.

I was overjoyed when my Master agreed to pee on me. Peeing in front of someone is intimate in itself, but I have found that peeing on someone can foster intimacy even more.

The first time we engaged in water sports it felt like a warm shower of complete wholeness. I felt so free and so in tune with my Master. I am so thankful that he trusted me enough to do this with me.

It felt like a piece of my Master was all over my body. I couldn’t help but rub his urine all over me and wear it with such pride.

We then began engaging in pee drinking, which I enjoy very much. To me, this is even more bonding than traditional water sports.

Watersports also helps me fight my OCD. My OCD brain tells me, “You will get sick from doing this. Don’t do that.” I never listen. I know my Master would never do anything that would hurt me. I am constantly combating my OCD thoughts so my disorder never gets in the way of how I connect with my Master and/or how I serve him.

We have only done watersports with each other. This makes it even more special to us. In a way it was like losing our virginities to one another.

One of the many things I love so much about our M/S dynamic is that I get to give things to my Master that I never thought I had in me and never thought I would ever give to anyone. It brings me such joy to engage in types of play with my Master that makes us stronger and brings us closer together.

Watersports definitely did that for us.

Our clean up ritual is very bonding too. You have to be pretty close to someone to clean up their pee in my opinion.

However, watersports can be used with casual play partners (as long as it is consensual and not crossing any hard limits). Bottom line, it can be very fun.

To me, play and sex with my Master are all about strengthening our connection and dynamic. Water sports helps to reinforce his role as my Master and mine as his slave. It is quite dominating to be peed on (in the best possible way).

Even if watersports aren’t your thing, I would encourage all people in any kind of relationship/dynamic to think of new forms of play whether it be edge play or wax play or anything else (that are not hard limits) that you would consider trying that could bring you closer together. The positive impact of exploring new kinds of play can greatly help your dynamic.

Please feel free to comment and ask questions. As always, thanks for reading and stay tuned!

By:

Slave Bunny, a 1950’s power slave, is involved in a wonderful and loving TPE 24/7 M/S relationship with her Master and husband. She will be teaching all over the Los Angeles area this year and will also be presenting two workshops at the BDSM Writers Con in Seattle and New York.

Slave Bunny graduated Magna Cum Laude with a degree in Psychology and has ample experience in the mental health field. She is also a certified personal trainer and was declared “One of the Top Five
Personal Trainers in the LA District” in 2016.

She has dedicated her life to working on herself mentally, spiritually, and physically, and hopes to inspire others to do the same. Through teaching and mentoring, she hopes to help everyone in the Kink community as much as she can.

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The 1950’s Power Exchange Dynamic in Modern Society – http://bdsmwriterscon.com/1950s

Comments

  1. Can you tell me more about the clean up process?

  2. Slave Bunny says:

    Sure! My Master and myself have a waterproof cover over our mattress. So we just carefully take that off the bed along with the sheets and clean it up in the tub. Rinse it off and leave to dry. I sometimes like to spritz off after and then we replace the sheets. We usually do these things together, which is very bonding in itself.

    I like having an end ritual when it comes to watersports. It’s fulfilling having a definite beginning, middle, and end to something.

  3. Great article! I appreciate you encouraging people to use play as a way to bond. It is definitely an important thing to think about.

  4. SlaveBunny says:

    Thank you! I agree! In my opinion everything you do in a dynamic should yield some kind of positive result such as bonding, growth, reinforcing the dynamic, pleasure (as long it doesn’t cross any hard limits), a deeper connection, a deeper understanding, etc.

  5. This gave me a lot to think about!

  6. SlaveBunny says:

    I am so glad you found this helpful, devyn!

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