“Are You Monogamous or Polyamorous?”–THE WRONG QUESTION

This article originally appeared on ArcaneAdvice.com. It’s time someone addressed a Single MASSIVE MISCONCEPTION regarding this question which gets asked in almost every Alternative Sexuality genre, including the BDSM / Fetish Scene. The answer will hopefully make you THINK, and it is interesting to note that we here in the BDSM Community have a few extra philosophical … [Read more...]

Are You Vanilla Or Genuinely Submissive?

This article originally appeared on ArcaneAdvice.com. A bright new submissive wrote me asking how could she tell if she was really submissive? The question seemed slightly moot at first, as the reason we were speaking was because I was a Dom and she was a submissive seeking knowledge. Nonetheless the question and our ensuing discussion quickly touched on a variety of key … [Read more...]