Be Cool

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Kimber Fox and Sabr A Johnsin shot by Danny Stygion In the tradition of my last two articles, I will again tackle a submitted BDSM question that I think is important to answer. This was sent to me via email. So, let’s go! “I'm new to the lifestyle, and am not even sure whether I’m a Top or bottom! I’ve been invited to a play party by a friend, but since I’ve never … [Read more...]

The Punishment Dilemma

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Dirk Hooper Professional Photography-http://www.DirkHooper.com Last week I answered a submitted question. It proved popular so I will answer another BDSM question – this one from a discussion at the legendary Los Angeles dungeon, the  Lair deSade. “I am a new Domme and have been trying to learn as much as possible. One thing truly baffles me. If I find a submissive … [Read more...]

Rules

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Mistress Eva with sub https://www.youwillpleaseme.com/ From time to time, I respond to submitted BDSM questions whose answers might help some of our readers. Here is one that I found fascinating; and though it is written by a female submissive, my answer should apply to male subs too.… “I am a relatively new female submissive. A potential Master I met gave me a … [Read more...]

Sensual Bondage

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www.voxart9.com When discussing BDSM play techniques, we frequently talk about floggers, canes and whips. But, there is a softer, and equally important, part of BDSM that is often overlooked. And that is the art of sensual bondage. It might not be as dramatic, but it is sexy, beautiful and often just as thrilling as the most edgy of edge play. For many submissives, … [Read more...]

Punishment

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Mistress Eva with sub. Check out more pictures at https://www.youwillpleaseme.com/ One of the most popular -- and exciting -- features of D/s is the training of a submissive by a Dom/me. Usually this entails the use of both positive and negative reinforcement – the negative side typically being punishment. I had covered the technical aspects of punishment in two previous … [Read more...]