Relationship Dynamics

Dominatrix: Mercenary Mistress Photographer: Danny Stygion Corset: FetCraft MUA: Texas Dela Rosa Shoes: Refuse To Be Usual Location: Austin Dungeon Relationship dynamics are so very individual.  Vanilla or kink, everyone has to develop their own working model.  The funny thing is that if you google the words "relationship dynamic definition," you get a bunch of … [Read more...]

Go Get A Cookie

Dirk Hooper Photography I was terrified to go to my first munch.  I'm not sure what depravity I was expecting, or maybe it was fear of being judged for the secret kinky things that I wanted and was afraid to share.  Either way, it was frightening. Daddy and I decided to go early and eat dinner at the location, to get a feel for things.  The food was good, I … [Read more...]

When Something is Broken, Adding More Moving Parts Isn’t Going to Fix It

I've seen a lot of people make bad decisions in the name of relationship preservation. A baby A pet A marriage A monogamous partner agreeing to open a relationship Those first three seem pretty logical.  A relationship with problems isn't going to improve by adding the stressors of a new pet or an infant and sleepless nights leading to shorter tempers.  While I … [Read more...]

My Poly Looks Like A Triad

Photo by slave boy julia ( While every relationship structure I've had has grown organically, I can comfortably say that my poly looks like a triad.  I generally feel pretty fulfilled in the male department with one partner. I find I have difficulty splitting my focus effectively and prioritizing too many relationships, so adding another female is about my … [Read more...]