There Is No Bad Blowjob

Every person who takes the liberty of going down on a someone thinks that their technique needs no work. That the receiver, should be grateful that someone even went down on them. All of this is true but there's even more. Let's review what can be done to enhance your blowjob experience no matter your role. So let's dive in: FACT Blowjobs are a lot a work but can … [Read more...]

Public Privacy

I grab him by his short locks one handful at a time chiding him as I grind up against him. It’s just me, him, and a hard wooden, freshly polished St. Andrew’s cross. I know there’s a mixture of pleasure and pain as I force him against the rigid surface, my hands grabbing any part of his scalp available to my long nails. I get closer, as if that were possible, and whisper in … [Read more...]

The Light Side of Dark Age Play

Did reading that title send a little shiver down your spine? It use to do the same for me too. When I first entered the scene many years ago (but who's counting!), Age play wasn't really 'in'. It wasn't a kink people were talking about. There were no spaces for Littles, Bigs, Middles, or those who were happy to interact with them. In fact, I'd go so far as to say 10 years … [Read more...]

Undermining Others: The Truth About Benevolent Sexism

You may have heard the phrase “Toxic masculinity” a lot recently and rightfully so. It’s  a reference to culturally-constructed ideals that highlight the violent, emotionally and sexually aggressive behavior perpetrated by male identified people. In my opinion this is a gendered behavior encompassing masculinity on a whole. It’s a cult mentality and it needs to … [Read more...]