I Don’t Have Any Toys

Over the years, I’ve seen a great many “This stuff is so expensive! Where can I buy for less?” and “Where can I get good quality stuff that won’t break the bank?” threads in various kink websites. New people want to join the fun, but the sticker shock is real. I hear you. This stuff is expensive, and there’s really no way around it when it comes to things like latex … [Read more...]

Water & Wolves (Culpation League: Anger Issues)

“Take her down to the water room. Put her in the cage and leave her be.” “Yes, House Master,” the lead guard said. To the elevator and down to the basement level. It seemed familiar to her but she didn’t know why. To the end of the block, left turn, left turn, and into the second door on the left. Numerous cameras were hung on the walls, none of them turned on yet. There … [Read more...]

My Sadomasochism Is Fluid

Now and then I’m asked what I mean when I say “my sadomasochism is fluid.” I think the duality of being both sadist and masochist is difficult for some people to understand. Let me simplify it. Lots of people say they are genderfluid. They range from masculine traits to feminine  from day to day, or hour to hour. Some people say their sexuality is fluid. They can be with … [Read more...]

Silly Dirty Talk (A tiny piece of Arlyn: Adjutant & Apostle)

“Do you need to be full, my sweet?” he asked. “Please, Master,” she replied, eyes closed. He left the bed a moment, returning with two smaller pieces of rope and something that landed with a thump when he dropped it onto the bed. First he wrapped a wrist with the rope, five times around, and tied it to the corner post. Repeated with her left wrist, her eyes showing him … [Read more...]

I Used To Be

I frequently see people new to bdsm and dom/sub relationships ask “what am I?” They give a list of things they like and want, and a list of things they don’t, and want someone to tell them what they should call themselves. It’s not that simple. I have said many hundreds of times that we are forever in evolution. It’s only when we look back to see how far we’ve traveled … [Read more...]