This week in kink, May 22nd, 2017


Well, anniebear and myself attended DomCon LA this past weekend. It was a lively event! We participated in a great panel discussion on Old Guard vs. New Guard. The vendors were impressive as always with a wide variety of toys, clothing, and information. anniebear interviewed a new vendor to DomCon, Restrained Grace, whom we'll be featuring i a future edition of Kink Weekly. We … [Read more...]

This week in kink, May 15th, 2017

Work by Sad Amish

DomCon LA is happening this week! This is Los Angeles's largest and most highly attended event. I'm delighted to be speaking on a panel along with our regular contributor Baadmaster entitled "Old Guard vs. New Guard." If you're in the area we would love for you to attend Saturday, May 20th at 4:30pm. anniebear will also be in the audience giving out our famous Kink Weekly … [Read more...]

Dexx Interviews Mistress Cyan

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In honor of DomCon LA happening this weekend, we wanted to revisit this interview from last year's DomCon issue. Mistress Cyan is the creator and visionary behind DomCon LA. You'll get a glimpse of the history and importance of this annual event. Enjoy! Dexx: You’re obviously a community leader, pioneer, and inspiration to a lot of the people in the BDSM community. I wanted … [Read more...]

This week in kink, May 8th, 2017


The Guardian covered an interesting memoir about a former Dominatrix turned university professor. Abandon Me by Melissa Febos is not your average tale as her life was inhibited by a heroin addiction as well. The memoir exposed her hidden truth to all of her friends and family, giving us a first hand look at what coming out in the scene can really be like. New York's most … [Read more...]

BDSM Scene Idea: Slutification


Sissification has long been a staple of the Fem-dom playbook. Also known as forced feminization, it involves a male submissive being made to wear feminine clothes (think lingerie and heels) and makeup, and then being made to do things in traditionally feminine ways – walking, talking and otherwise acting female-esque. I borrowed from this concept to come up with a fun scene … [Read more...]