Suffer For Me

Brian Vox- I was on my knees, makeup smeared, drool and snot all over my face and he looked at me with fierce eyes when I asked if I could take a break. “No, I want you to suffer for me.” His command spoke volumes. He was requesting I go to a place I’d not gone with him before. He’d asked me to go past discomfort and into the edges of fear. … [Read more...]

Who’s Afraid Of The Big, Bad Submissive?

She waits at a cozy cafe and folds her napkin nervously as the minutes' turn. He's not stuck in traffic. He isn't going to show. They had been texting for six weeks. They discussed her every desire and limit, and they seemed a perfect fit. Then, he ghosted her two weeks before their scheduled meeting. He had become a master at flirting with her. Sending her nasty messages … [Read more...]

Who’s In Charge Anyway?

Question: My boyfriend & I have been dating for a year, and he's a Dom. I'm new to this, but I have been wanting this for a long time. I've been wanting him to restrain me with ropes, cuffs, straps, whatever & he's always making excuses. I even brought him silk scarves and he only partially tied my hands together. How can I convince him to do it? I've told him … [Read more...]

What age agency?

Agency is the ability to act in a way to accomplish your goals. To have an agency in an area in your life is to have the capability to act in a way to produce the results you want. When discussing sexual agency, you have the ability to define yourself sexually, the ability to choose whether or not you want to experience sexual activity, the ability to choose how you want to … [Read more...]

Where Have All The Fetishes Gone?

Seriously, littles are creepy. Did you see that ropework? Sooo gorgeous! I just don't understand anyone wanting to be a human ashtray or footstool. Look how beautifully obedient His slave is. Why in the world would a man submit voluntarily to chastity? We have wide-ranging views on fetishes. Some we seem to embrace readily while others we revile openly. We can be … [Read more...]