What Did You Do This Weekend?

'What'd you do this weekend?' ask vanilla friends Like a great many kinky people, we have kinky friends and we have vanilla friends. Some of our vanilla friends are aware of our particular proclivities and are interested, more or less (usually less).  Of course, we have family. Inevitably, family are pretty much hopelessly vanilla. I don't know why, but it always seems to be … [Read more...]

When It’s In Your DNA

When kink is part of your relationship's DNA, there can be times when you take it for granted. For me, as a Master, it's in the assumptions of my girl's service to me, that she'll always be there when I need her, that she'll dutifully tend to my needs even, perhaps, when she's not necessarily in the mood. Of course, I've never been someone who was \capable of taking … [Read more...]

BDSM On The Road

My girl and I are getting ready to go away on vacation (to Scotland, if it matters). And sure, we're planning to see the sights, eat the food, drink the drinks, and experience the countryside. But we're also planning more than a bit of kinky, intimate time for ourselves because, well, what's a vacation for? However, given that we're flying overseas, it's not really practical … [Read more...]

Torture Porn For The Masses

Watching 'Criminal Minds' with last week and a scene came up that had all the earmarks of pure gold. The gal had been securely strapped into a straitjacket, tape gagged and blindfolded, and her ankles were tied. She was even barefooted. There was struggling, squirming, and "mmph"-ing. So I'm asked if I was enjoying the repeated bondage scenes. "No," I replied. "These … [Read more...]

Nature vs Nurture or Are We Born This Way?

It's fascinating to me how consistent my sexual proclivities have remained over the years. When I was only six-years-old I distinctly remember that there was a gal (maybe 12 or 13-years-old) who lived two doors over on whom I had a significant crush. Why? Because she had a distinct penchant for going about sans footwear. And when she did wear shoes, it was inevitably a pair … [Read more...]