Interview with Submissive Cupcake SinClair

Rico J Coria Photography Can you tell us a little about your background and how you got your start in the Kink Community? I was a bit of an introvert growing up and had more books than friends back in the day! One day, I stumbled across Marquis de Sade’s book “Justine” and  my curiousity was peaked! I did my research and never looked back. I went to munches, then play … [Read more...]

How To Kink Without BDSM

Hello everyone! I was recently inspired by my own M/s dynamic to write this article. For many of us in the lifestyle, it IS standard to practice BDSM. However, a lot of individuals think of kink as encompassing solely BDSM. When in reality, there are so many other ways “to kink.” Of course, BDSM is one way to participate in the lifestyle, but I think it’s important for … [Read more...]

Interview with Master Anthony and slave Robin

What are the main core values that you structure your dynamic around? Master Anthony: Transparency. Integrity. slave Robin: Protecting the property, which is the relationship and each other. How can these values be observed in your dynamic and behaviors? Master Anthony: For myself, I try very hard to do what I say I am going to do to. To be a man of my word. To live … [Read more...]

Interview with Kirsten from Chronic Sex

Can you tell us a little about your background? How did you get involved in this line of work? I’ve been disabled/chronically ill since I was five years old. Throughout high school, I was that friend who would go with friends to Planned Parenthood and talk to them about their sex lives or being risk-aware.   How did Chronic Sex come about? In college, I … [Read more...]

How BDSM Can Help PTSD

Photo by slave boy julia (sjstudio1.com) Those who suffer from PTSD (Post-traumatic stress disorder) often make choices that are unhealthy and/or dangerous due to low self esteem, picking the demon they know rather than the unknown, panic/panic attacks, and/or thinking they deserve nothing more than to continue traumatic experiences. People often self sabotage, get … [Read more...]