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Photo by slave boy julia ( And now for something completely different!  At least here on Up until now, I have written on topics that I felt were important to cover – at least in a general sense. And, based on response, these articles – and others here on – have been helpful in laying the groundwork on BDSM, D/s and kink in … [Read more...]


This article is intended for those of you who have been a Dom/me for a while. (If you are a newbie, I have written an article for new Doms: If you are interested in advanced D/s theory check out: ) Many of you have gotten to the “first plateau” in your … [Read more...]

Shibari Made Easy

The title of this article, “Shibari Made Easy,” is really just a tease. Obviously, this would be more like, “Learn Brain Surgery In One Hour.” But now that I have your attention, I can help you have fun with rope bondage right out of the box! Here at, we have spotlighted a video on Shibari Yes, it … [Read more...]

Hard Limits

One of the most exciting things about BDSM is “pushing limits.” I have written articles here on regarding boredom – that even BDSM can get boring. But “pushing limits” seems to be a wonderful anti-boredom prescription. In many D/s relationships, what was once a hard limit often becomes a favorite activity. D/s relationships are fluid, not static, interactions. … [Read more...]

Nature or Nuture

Much of what is written about this lifestyle concerns the underlying basis of Dominance and submission. Are they inherent or acquired characteristics? If they are acquired, how does one go about attaining them? Can anybody learn to be a Dominant or submissive or is it "in the genes?" Most of my observations here are the result of interviews with lifestylers I personally … [Read more...]