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As 2020 begins, I would like to wish all of the kinkweekly.com family – from the staff to our readers and followers -- a Happy New Year and trust that 2020 will be your best year ever. Even though we now look at 2019 in the rear view mirror, tradition demands that I offer some resolutions for 2020 – and no clickbait! Besides, even if these are technically a few days late, … [Read more...]

BDSM NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS 2020

As 2019 winds down to its inexorable close, I would like to wish all of the kinkweekly.com family – from the staff to our readers and followers -- a Happy New Year and trust that 2020 will be your best year ever. Once again, tradition demands that I offer some resolutions for 2020 – and no clickbait!  These are just suggestions; obviously, you should pick those that you … [Read more...]

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Of all the questions submitted to me, the most popular ones are in the long distance category. Likely this is because in the Internet age, most people in every category meet online. The following problem is one I hadn't seen before, so here goes: Reader: I’m debating traveling to visit a guy I met online, but I'm terminally afraid of rejection. Though I’ve kept nothing from … [Read more...]

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Reader: I'm a new Domme, and I just met an experienced submissive that I like. How do I proceed so I don't make mistakes, look like an "idiot," and lose his respect? If there were a “Grand Dominant Council,” this body would have as its motto, “Honesty isn’t everything, it is the only thing.”  (And being honest, they would credit Vince Lombardi for this paraphrased credo!) … [Read more...]

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Reader: When punishing your slave, is it important to use a device that has never been used for pleasure? If not, how can that punishment be given without it being pleasurable? This is a common delimma that both beginners and not-so-beginners face.  The best way to answer this question is to answer it with a question: What is the purpose of punishment?  If it is for training … [Read more...]