The Punishment Dilemma

Dirk Hooper Professional Photography-http://www.DirkHooper.com Last week I answered a submitted question. It proved popular so I will answer another BDSM question – this one from a discussion at the legendary Los Angeles dungeon, the  Lair deSade. “I am a new Domme and have been trying to learn as much as possible. One thing truly baffles me. If I find a submissive … [Read more...]

This week in kink: May 28, 2018

www.voxart9.com This week we are featuring an amazing artist named Brian Vox. To check out more of his work click here About the Artist: Brian Vox has been creating art for more than 40 years. His work ranges from acrylic to digital paintings and thematically tend to revolve around pinup, surreal, and fetish. Several works include mixed media design with his trademark steel … [Read more...]

Healthy Dominance

 www.voxart9.com I have noticed there are a lot of new individuals in the community that seem to be unclear about what a D type really is. A lot of these individuals are also unaware of the responsibilities that come with being any rendition of a D type. Being a Dominant entails so much more than just telling people what to do and getting your fantasies met by doing … [Read more...]

Punishment

Mistress Eva with sub. Check out more pictures at https://www.youwillpleaseme.com/ One of the most popular -- and exciting -- features of D/s is the training of a submissive by a Dom/me. Usually this entails the use of both positive and negative reinforcement – the negative side typically being punishment. I had covered the technical aspects of punishment in two previous … [Read more...]

Spanking: Pleasure or Discipline?

With the June 10th Kink Weekly Launch Party almost here, you can bet there will be spankings galore at the event. So what better time to examine the role of spanking in our lifestyle? Whenever the subject of spanking is discussed, the question of “how can it be used for discipline when the submissive enjoys it?” invariably comes up. But it is not an issue of either-or; it … [Read more...]