The Recipe for Imparted Presence

Hi everyone! I am writing this article to educate readers about one of the most essential things needed (in my opinion) to have a long-term 24/7 power exchange relationship. A lot of people believe that M/s relationships are about micro-management leading to macro-management. What I mean by this is that at the beginning of a dynamic and/or during training phrases, the slave … [Read more...]

The How’s and Why’s of 1950’s Power Exchange Dynamics

In honor of my 1950’s classes coming up (Jan 22 at Sanctuary and Feb 10 at Threshold) I wanted to write an article that shows the Kink community how one can keep the 1950’s alive no matter what your lifestyle entails, and the positives that go along with 1950’s power exchange dynamics. One might think that a 1950’s dynamic is only possible if you are a heterosexual, married … [Read more...]

Acceptance

There are so many different people, types of play, dynamics/relationships, and ways to live. I feel it is our responsibility to try our best not to judge others for living differently than we do. Also, by judging, you are stunting your own learning and could potentially make some enemies. In this community, it’s so important to keep an open mind, and to be open to other … [Read more...]

Part 4: How Slavery Can Reduce Anxiety

Thank you to everyone that has been following my reduction of anxiety series. (If you've missed any parts of this series you may read them here: Part I, Part 2, Part 3). As promised, I am going to finish this series by going into a very specific type of slave training, meditation, subspace, and some assignments my Master has given me. Training your slave to get into a calmer … [Read more...]

The Punishment Manual – Part I

Most D/s articles on the Internet talk about punishment in terms of spanking. “If you do not obey, I will spank you.” But how does this work if the submissive or slave actually likes to be spanked? Here we will catalogue punishments you can actually use in the real time training of a slave/submissive. This will be one of my longest articles. But I wanted to start the year off … [Read more...]