Being a Domme for the first time

From the submissive point of view! Since entering the scene nearly three years ago, I’ve always identified as a submissive. However, that doesn’t mean I haven’t used my brat side to participate in co-topping (two Doms, one sub) or casually playing with female friends. As of late I’ve felt a pull towards domination. While I think I will always identify as a submissive in my … [Read more...]

We Are Human First

This article is about consent and negotiation and mistakes and hindsight. It’s about personal responsibility and compassion. There are reasons I don’t do pick up play and why I like to be at least friends with someone before I do a scene with them. When you play as a bottom you are trusting someone with your physical, mental, and emotional well-being for a certain amount … [Read more...]