Subspace. We’ve all heard of it and some of us have experienced it. If you are unfamiliar with what it is I highly suggest you read my article about it here on Kink Weekly. However, I get asked in class when I speak to subspace if there is an equivalent for D-types. Yes, there is such a thing as Topspace or Dom(me)space. However, this is something you hear much less about. … [Read more...]

Dexx Interviews Master Gabriel

Dexx: You’re the creator of the Gentleman In Charge event, you teach the BDSM 201 class series, and you create leather products under the Ravynblood Leather brand. For many you’re also known as the voice of DomCon in LA and Atlanta. So, I guess if you go back a little ways, how did you first find yourself coming into the BDSM community? Master Gabriel: Well, actually I first … [Read more...]

It’s ok to be dominant

Defining "D-type": general term I use to encompass those that identify as a Dominant, Master, Mistress, Goddess, Trainer, Top, Owner, Daddy/Mommy, etc. D-types in the BDSM community are those that hold the power or control that their s-type surrenders, or yields, to them. Why would someone want to assume this great responsibility? The answers will vary depending on who … [Read more...]

Erotica: Resort Fantasy

When I walk into that room, I have the power. That's because I know and he doesn't. It'll be cute the way he thinks it was his decision to approach me. As if I hadn't started drawing him in the moment I'd selected him from the crowd. As if I hadn't already spent hours sending signals and recognizing their reception. Patient. Laughing. Legs crossing. A glance. A sip from my … [Read more...]