This week in kink: September 17, 2018

“Displaying Art" by Sir Render Original reference from www.superbound.com Model Victoria Learn how to make consent sexy from Mistress Velvet Click here to read more “A Present” by Sir Render Original reference by petite deviant.tumblr.com There are so many differences between what 50 Shades perpetuates and what BDSM is really about Click here to … [Read more...]

This week in kink: September 10, 2018

Don't miss Back To School Camp: Submissive Edition event happening this Sept 15 1:30-5:30 at Lair de Sade! Classes, crafts, food, raffles, and more! https://BackToschoolSUB.eventbrite.com More info on the event page: https://fetlife.com/events/688206 Buy your tickets now! The Kink Community, like any other community, has its own language and its own … [Read more...]

Let’s Talk About Aftercare For The Dominant

Illustration by Dirk Hooper I’ve read about a million articles (only a slight exaggeration) on aftercare for the bottom or the submissive, but I’d like to propose a little aftercare for the Dominant or the Top too. Before I get started, this article in no way is meant to minimize the incredible importance of providing aftercare for the submissive. For a Dominant, … [Read more...]

BDSM Burnout

As many of my readers know – and many here at kinkweekly.com – I am in a long-term D/s relationship. Although we are talking more than seven years, it has not been a totally smooth ride. As with all relationships, arguments, tension and boredom enter when you least expect them. That is the bad news. The good news is that – as opposed to vanilla dynamics – it is much easier to … [Read more...]

Rituals

Brian Vox-http://www.voxart9.com/ In a previous edition of kinkweekly.com, Slave Bunny offered a terrific piece (http://www.kinkweekly.com/article-guest-author/rituals-part-2/ ) on rituals. Since rituals in BDSM are extremely important, I thought I might present some additional thoughts that illustrate how essential they are in our lifestyle. To paraphrase some football … [Read more...]