Acceptance

There are so many different people, types of play, dynamics/relationships, and ways to live. I feel it is our responsibility to try our best not to judge others for living differently than we do. Also, by judging, you are stunting your own learning and could potentially make some enemies. In this community, it’s so important to keep an open mind, and to be open to other … [Read more...]

Part 4: How Slavery Can Reduce Anxiety

Thank you to everyone that has been following my reduction of anxiety series. (If you've missed any parts of this series you may read them here: Part I, Part 2, Part 3). As promised, I am going to finish this series by going into a very specific type of slave training, meditation, subspace, and some assignments my Master has given me. Training your slave to get into a calmer … [Read more...]

The Punishment Manual – Part I

Most D/s articles on the Internet talk about punishment in terms of spanking. “If you do not obey, I will spank you.” But how does this work if the submissive or slave actually likes to be spanked? Here we will catalogue punishments you can actually use in the real time training of a slave/submissive. This will be one of my longest articles. But I wanted to start the year off … [Read more...]

Part 3: How Slavery Can Reduce Anxiety

If you have not read Part 1 & 2 you can read them here: Part 1 & Part 2 Now that I have touched on how the overall M/S structure helps to reduce anxiety, I would like to talk about some specific anxiety-reducing protocols. My Master and I are advocates of tracking my progress and rewarding me for overcoming my anxiety (In the first article in this series I told you … [Read more...]