The Three Pillars

I see a great many posts here from singles attempting to determine whether they're too particular, whether they should "settle" for someone. And how they should determine it. Years ago I had someone tell me about the three pillars of a relationship. I took it to heart, modified it, and made it into a pretty good way to evaluate a potential partner. The three pillars … [Read more...]

Setting The Scene

(Note: As always, this article is presented from the perspective of MaleDom/femsub. I can't speak with even vague authority to any other dynamic. Please adjust appropriately to your own.) Always remember: No one is a mind-reader. So it's Friday night and you've been talking with your girl all week about the scene you're going to have at week's end. You've both had a … [Read more...]

PirateStan Interviews Mister

A while back, a local friend ('Mister' on FL) started doing something a bit unusual; chain bondage. I initially found the idea intriguing, as metal restraints are something I find more than a bit appealing. Then I saw photos of what exactly he was doing, how he was not simply binding, but actually suspending people wrapped in roughly their body weight of chain. The … [Read more...]

Profiles

I've certainly visited my fair share of dating sites over the years. And I've encountered people randomly at munches, or on FetLife, which has led me to scrutinize their profiles that I might, perhaps, get to know them just a tiny bit better. And, friends, I've got something I need to tell you... Y'all's profile game ain't what it needs to be. It ain't what it could be. It … [Read more...]

A Basic Primer On Gags For Bondage Play

I love gags. I love the way they look when worn by a helpless damsel, her eyes above it wide, angry, or even erotically inflamed. I love hearing a girl trying to talk through a gag and failing miserably, her ability to express herself reduced to a series of growls and mmphs. And I love watching her trying to relieve herself of her gag, contorting her face, pushing with her … [Read more...]