Event Review: Lovely Fate Play Party

  Lovely Fate... My new favorite play party in Los Angeles… everything I never knew I wanted in a kink event. I recently had the pleasure of attending Lovely Fate. For those who haven’t heard of it, Lovely Fate is a new series of upscale BDSM play parties in Los Angeles. I have been to many BDSM events around the country and the world. I have to say that this … [Read more...]

Be Cool

Kimber Fox and Sabr A Johnsin shot by Danny Stygion In the tradition of my last two articles, I will again tackle a submitted BDSM question that I think is important to answer. This was sent to me via email. So, let’s go! “I'm new to the lifestyle, and am not even sure whether I’m a Top or bottom! I’ve been invited to a play party by a friend, but since I’ve never … [Read more...]

Beginner’s Corner: What Am I?

Everyone was a beginner once. And in order to welcome newbies into our community, I will, from time to time, write articles aimed at those who are entering the lifestyle. Like this one! I recently received a question that stated a newbie was intrigued by the lifestyle, but had no idea what she was – Domme, sub or switch. Or something else! By the question, it is clear that … [Read more...]

My First Play Party

I get asked by friends all the time, “Jenn, don’t you get tired of teaching the same basic stuff over and over?” To that I say no.  The reason I don’t get tired of what I do is for many reasons.  I am giving info and providing opportunities that I wished I’d had when I was new, seeing people discover new things makes my heart super happy, and staying in touch with new folks … [Read more...]

How to Host Your Own Play Party

You don't have to be an event planner extraordinaire in order to throw your own play party. With a little organization and preparation, you can gather your favorite folks together for a fun night of safe, kinky fun. The following tips will help you get started. Create a guest list You'll have to jot down a list of all the people you'd be interested in having over to your … [Read more...]