Integrity – the Key to Trust in Kink Relationships

Eve Marie shot by Danny Stygion To reach the most potent depths of power-exchange requires the highest level of personal integrity. Aspiring to the highest level of integrity is critical to deepening trust and connection with a partner. I define integrity as having the intention and commitment to be responsible, accountable, risk-aware, actively listening, … [Read more...]

Be Cool

Kimber Fox and Sabr A Johnsin shot by Danny Stygion In the tradition of my last two articles, I will again tackle a submitted BDSM question that I think is important to answer. This was sent to me via email. So, let’s go! “I'm new to the lifestyle, and am not even sure whether I’m a Top or bottom! I’ve been invited to a play party by a friend, but since I’ve never … [Read more...]

Healthy Submission

Click here to read the sister article-Healthy Dominance Last week, I touched on what makes for healthy dominance. This week, I’d like to flip the coin over and talked about healthy submission. It’s so important for all individuals, no matter how they identify, to do what’s best for themselves and for all involved. I cannot stress enough the issue of consent, abiding … [Read more...]

This week in kink: June 4, 2018

A lot of people struggle with telling their partners about their kinks. Click here to read advice from Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, about this subject. Don't miss the Kink Community featured in the New York Times!  One of their reporters pays a visit to the Eulenspiegel Society, and presents an honest, non-biased view of our community. Click here to read … [Read more...]

The Making of Latex

The Making of Latex 101 from Latex 101 on Vimeo. … [Read more...]