When Something is Broken, Adding More Moving Parts Isn’t Going to Fix It

I've seen a lot of people make bad decisions in the name of relationship preservation. A baby A pet A marriage A monogamous partner agreeing to open a relationship Those first three seem pretty logical.  A relationship with problems isn't going to improve by adding the stressors of a new pet or an infant and sleepless nights leading to shorter tempers.  While I … [Read more...]

My Poly Looks Like A Triad

Photo by slave boy julia (sjstudio1.com) While every relationship structure I've had has grown organically, I can comfortably say that my poly looks like a triad.  I generally feel pretty fulfilled in the male department with one partner. I find I have difficulty splitting my focus effectively and prioritizing too many relationships, so adding another female is about my … [Read more...]

Is Long-Term Poly Possible?

I have already written some articles on kinkweekly.com on polyamory. Still, I get quizzed on poly triads more than on any other BDSM topic. Perhaps it is the fantasy. The Dom/me having two slaves to serve him/her is ultra hot. But I am talking about more than just a casual threesome which happens as much in the vanilla world as around here. I am examining long-term poly … [Read more...]

Two Dom or Not Two Dom

That is the question. How the heck can having two Doms in your life work? (For purposes of this article I am using “Dom” as reference to a D-type regardless of gender identity.) We are all used to seeing the Dom with more than one sub. Minus the complications and issues that sometimes come along with the poly aspect of that situation, the “one Dom, two subs” (or more) makes … [Read more...]

A Third Leg

No, this article is not about giant members. lol So I was watching talk shows the other day. Well, I use the term “watching” loosely. More like glancing up at the TV occasionally while they were running in the background as I helped my kids with homework. Anyway, on one of the talk shows a co-host was mentioning something about how people have been saying that couples … [Read more...]