POLY DILEMMAS

Brian Vox-http://www.voxart9.com/ One of the most appealing aspects of our lifestyle is often polyamory. Having two – or even more -- subs or slaves can be very hot. That being said, by all accounts, these arrangements are usually the shortest lived of BDSM unions – especially for those who want a live-in and permanent relationship. As I am a male Dominant who has had a … [Read more...]

Interview with Shay

How did you get your start in the Kink Community? What drew you to this lifestyle? I came into the kink community in 2003, when my partner Stefanos and I were living in Minnesota. Prior to that, Stefanos had been involved in fetish event production, and we’d both done kinky bedroom play for pretty much as long as we’d been having sex. We were also both Live Action Role … [Read more...]

Relationship Dynamics

Dominatrix: Mercenary Mistress Photographer: Danny Stygion Corset: FetCraft MUA: Texas Dela Rosa Shoes: Refuse To Be Usual Location: Austin Dungeon Relationship dynamics are so very individual.  Vanilla or kink, everyone has to develop their own working model.  The funny thing is that if you google the words "relationship dynamic definition," you get a bunch of … [Read more...]

When Something is Broken, Adding More Moving Parts Isn’t Going to Fix It

I've seen a lot of people make bad decisions in the name of relationship preservation. A baby A pet A marriage A monogamous partner agreeing to open a relationship Those first three seem pretty logical.  A relationship with problems isn't going to improve by adding the stressors of a new pet or an infant and sleepless nights leading to shorter tempers.  While I … [Read more...]

Interview with Submissive Cupcake SinClair

Rico J Coria Photography Can you tell us a little about your background and how you got your start in the Kink Community? I was a bit of an introvert growing up and had more books than friends back in the day! One day, I stumbled across Marquis de Sade’s book “Justine” and  my curiousity was peaked! I did my research and never looked back. I went to munches, then play … [Read more...]