What Are “Hard” and “Soft” Limits?

If you’re new to BDSM, one of the first things you will hear about are limits. You may also see people declare themselves a “no limits slave” or demand a submissive partner without limits. What does that mean and what are limits? What is the difference between hard and soft limits? Why do we even need limits in the first place? Limits are basically a boundary, a thing you … [Read more...]