Nature or Nuture

Much of what is written about this lifestyle concerns the underlying basis of Dominance and submission. Are they inherent or acquired characteristics? If they are acquired, how does one go about attaining them? Can anybody learn to be a Dominant or submissive or is it "in the genes?" Most of my observations here are the result of interviews with lifestylers I personally … [Read more...]

Conscious Dominance

Defining and Living your Personal Code of Mature, Noble, Authentic, Responsible Dominance For me, being a Conscious Dominant means to be clear about, and aware of the values, principles and protocols I have chosen to live by. It means having my words and actions be in alignment with these values.   Am I living what I preach?   And there can be many further nuances, … [Read more...]

Submission Explained by a Male Submissive

Bound from Matt Rose on Vimeo. … [Read more...]

Lets Grab Coffee: Part 2

www.voxart9.com Disclaimer: This is a work of fiction, and we are in no way advocates of any kind of abuse, non-consensual behavior, crossing any hard limits, putting any one in harm’s way (physically/mentally/emotionally/spiritually), or violating one’s boundaries/what was pre-negotiated. With this being said, enjoy the story! For Part 1 Click Here Stomping my feet … [Read more...]

This week in kink, April 30, 2018

Former Dominatrix, Kasia Urbaniak, opens a school in NYC in order to empower individuals using what she learned as a Dominatrix. Click here to read more about her school. 6 of the Most Common Sexual Fantasies (according to sex therapists) among men and women. Click here to read more. Learn more about HuCow, the Fetish that imagines women as cows. Click … [Read more...]