This week in kink: September 10, 2018

Don't miss Back To School Camp: Submissive Edition event happening this Sept 15 1:30-5:30 at Lair de Sade! Classes, crafts, food, raffles, and more! More info on the event page: Buy your tickets now! The Kink Community, like any other community, has its own language and its own … [Read more...]

BDSM Burnout

As many of my readers know – and many here at – I am in a long-term D/s relationship. Although we are talking more than seven years, it has not been a totally smooth ride. As with all relationships, arguments, tension and boredom enter when you least expect them. That is the bad news. The good news is that – as opposed to vanilla dynamics – it is much easier to … [Read more...]


Brian Vox- In a previous edition of, Slave Bunny offered a terrific piece ( ) on rituals. Since rituals in BDSM are extremely important, I thought I might present some additional thoughts that illustrate how essential they are in our lifestyle. To paraphrase some football … [Read more...]

A Special Treat for Donna: Part 3

Click here for Part 1 Click here for Part 2 As we sat back and languidly sipped our drinks, a series of attractive young men summoned the courage to approach and ask to join us.  Madame had the ones she approved sit close to me so I could go to work on them. This was my night to be a bad girl without fear of provoking Madame.  I had full permission to flirt and tease … [Read more...]

A Special Treat for Donna: Part 2

Click here to read Part 1 Madame went to her email to comb through the dozens of responses she had received.  The large majority were complete duds, of course. Some with no pics at all, some offering nothing but tiresome dick pics, or worst of all, those hairy waist-down panty boys.  Yuck. There were also the usual functional illiterates for whom spelling and … [Read more...]