This week in kink: August 27, 2018

Photographer: Matthias Wallmeier Model: Miss Fetilicious Meet James Davis- a 36 year old army vet who lives with his wife, fiance, and two submissive sex slaves Click here to read more Photographer: Matthias Wallmeier Model: Miss Fetilicious Ever want to take control of the conversation? Check out these conversational tips from a Dominatrix Click … [Read more...]

Are We All Switches?

With DomCon Los Angeles (domconla.com) coming to the L.A. Hilton on the 9th of May, attendees will see an array of both Dom/me and subs – from 24/7 to weekend players. Thus it might be interesting to examine Dominance and submission from a completely different angle. Remember, this is my opinion and my opinion only! I think that, in our modern society, it is nearly impossible … [Read more...]

Beginner’s Corner: What Am I?

Everyone was a beginner once. And in order to welcome newbies into our community, I will, from time to time, write articles aimed at those who are entering the lifestyle. Like this one! I recently received a question that stated a newbie was intrigued by the lifestyle, but had no idea what she was – Domme, sub or switch. Or something else! By the question, it is clear that … [Read more...]

To Top or Not To Top

As the New Year is close at hand, I wanted to end the year answering some readers’ questions. Rather than write in the abstract, responding to real life questions makes it so much more personal. Here is a question that, I think, everyone in the lifestyle – from beginner to expert -- has pondered. Every time I ask my Dom for something -- like a McDonald's hamburger -- or make … [Read more...]

What is a Switch?

When someone tells you they identify as a Dominant or Master, submissive or slave - you have a pretty good idea what that means. But how about when someone tells you they're a switch? Well, it means you need to ask more questions. I often compare somebody that identifies as a switch to someone who identifies as bisexual. Now, before you get all upset, I understand that … [Read more...]