The Outsider

Large green fields. A huge bonfire. Adults and children playing, talking, eating, laughing. I say a few pleasantries to a few of the moms I know then focus on the needs of my children. Once they have had their fill of hot dogs, deviled eggs, and s'mores - they leave me to go play with their friends. I sit off to the side, writing these words in my Hello Kitty notebook (which … [Read more...]

BDSM Aftercare

What is aftercare? What does it entail? Why do people need/want it? Aftercare, in its simplest definition, is something that takes place in the time following a scene. In my opinion, it's best to think of aftercare as a part of a scene - the last chapter of the story, so to speak. First, let's talk about what aftercare may look like. It is different for different … [Read more...]