Archives for November 2016

BDSM Scene Idea: Bondage Mitts

You may have seen our buying guide from last week on bondage mitts. We wanted give you some user tested ideas on how to maximize this fun accessory into your scenes! Also I use the pronoun her or she in this article but these ideas would be suitable for any sexual orientation. Sensory Deprivation Aside from being blindfolded, having your hands restrained is arguably one of … [Read more...]

This week in kink, November 28th, 2016

Sanctuary Marketplace is this Saturday in Los Angeles. Just in time for the holidays, this highly anticipated event boasts vendors and performances galore! If you need a kinky gift for your special someone, this is the place to be with dozens of vendors displaying their wares. If you're in the Southern California area, we hope to see you there! We loved this write up about … [Read more...]

Video: Mistress May I?

Mistress May I? from Gabbi Ewing The Mistress featured in this video shares a very similar sentiment to many of our BDSM practitioner friends both professional and lifestyle. We hope this provides some clarity and perhaps even insight on how to explain what you do to your friends and family, should you choose to. … [Read more...]

Erotica: La Patrona, Chapter One

Oscar’s hands choked the life out of Emilio. Estefan watched the two closely from a few feet away, ready to halt the contest at the first sign that Emilio has lost consciousness which Estefan felt might be any second now. Emilio was on the flat of his back and Oscar was seated on his chest. Oscar had “fully mounted” Emilio, to put it in the language of grappling. Oscar’s hands … [Read more...]

High Protocol: Part One

This article was inspired by Vice Erotica’s visual depiction of high protocol service right here on In our post “Fifty Shades” world, I fear that the beauty of high protocol could be lost. Thus this article, written in two parts. Part One will examine the myth of high protocol dominance and submission. The next article will be an extensive nuts and bolts guide … [Read more...]