Archives for January 2018

This week in kink, January 22, 2018

Polyamory is making more and more headlines these days. Anita realized after a long marriage with kids that she longed for more. She and her husband opened their marriage and have not looked back. Read about their polyamory struggles and successes here. This article seems to be a little more focused on Anita than her partners. Thoughts about how polyamory is being portrayed … [Read more...]


Although this might astonish you, I have known a number of people who practice self-bondage. Those who I have spoken with tend to do it on the lighter side. All seem to be in agreement that self-bondage cannot be as edgy as with a partner. Not only does "going light" eliminate a lot of danger, but it also gives you something to look forward to when you finally find a Master or … [Read more...]

The How’s and Why’s of 1950’s Power Exchange Dynamics

In honor of my 1950’s classes coming up (Jan 22 at Sanctuary and Feb 10 at Threshold) I wanted to write an article that shows the Kink community how one can keep the 1950’s alive no matter what your lifestyle entails, and the positives that go along with 1950’s power exchange dynamics. One might think that a 1950’s dynamic is only possible if you are a heterosexual, married … [Read more...]

50 Shades Freed… trailer reactions

OK, so we realize that most of you probably aren't super excited about the new 50 Shades movie coming out soon (except for a few of you who are probably super excited).  Nevertheless, we definitely think you'll enjoy these fan reactions to the trailer, from this new app. LOL... and there are plenty more where those came from. … [Read more...]

This week in kink, January 15, 2018

Tips from a real dominatrix on how to be dominant in the bedroom? Yes Please! Click here to read more.  Whether you are trying BDSM for the first time or a seasoned veteran. You may have some things to learn here. For shits and giggles, lets take a quiz shall we. I constantly find myself trapped in the endless stream of mindless garbage on the internet. Then I came … [Read more...]