Archives for March 2018

Sinister Insight Night’s Power Exchange Panel

I was privileged enough to have the opportunity to present a panel at Lair on power exchange last Friday. The panel had such an amazing turn out, and I was so honored that so many experienced and well-respected individuals within the community agreed to be on the panel with me. This was my first time presenting a panel, so I honestly had no idea how it was going to go. When I … [Read more...]

What Are “Hard” and “Soft” Limits?

If you’re new to BDSM, one of the first things you will hear about are limits. You may also see people declare themselves a “no limits slave” or demand a submissive partner without limits. What does that mean and what are limits? What is the difference between hard and soft limits? Why do we even need limits in the first place? Limits are basically a boundary, a thing you … [Read more...]

Long Distance D/s

As the Internet turns twenty, more or less, we should address the popularity of long distance D/s relationships. For the most part, the days of “Master, twenty-seven years old with twenty-five years experience looking for submissive” are gone. With technology like Skype, Duo, Facetime and webcamming, among others, it is fairly easy to get a handle on what your long-distance … [Read more...]

This week in kink, March 12, 2018

In case you were worried, spanking does not make you a sex addict. Evidently, this is a fear for some folks. That and 4 other truths about sex are shared in this steamy little sex article. Click here to read all about it. BDSM and the kink community has been growing at a rapid pace since the emergence of the 50 shades series which has introduced many vanilla folks to … [Read more...]

Horses Burlesque

Horses Burlesque from maryjane oreilly on Vimeo. Horses is a dance from the show In Flagrante, created by MJ and Phil O'Reilly. The Director of the film is Peter Salmon. DOP is Dave Cameron. Dancers - Maria Munkowits, Amanda Macfarlane, Molly McDowall, Megan Hughes. Special thanks to the Barry Purdon Harness Racing Stables out at Clevedon for letting us use them as a … [Read more...]