Archives for October 2019

Data Collection

You may remember a while back that I wrote about the possible relationship between some of my childhood experiences and my desire as an adult to have a nurturing Dominant [www.kinkweekly.com/article-kink-weekly/relationship-childhood-dynamic/]. I created a survey with six questions.  I had dreamed of a thousand responses, but hoped for a hundred.  Unfortunately, I only … [Read more...]

Ask Baadmaster- Halloween Edition!

One of the things that amazed me about moving to Southern California was how seriously people took Halloween. That there were Halloween stores all over the place blew my mind; I had never seen anything like that before.  Thus, I was pleasantly surprised when my email bag produced this query: Reader: With Halloween coming up, I’ve been thinking a lot about costumes. Do you … [Read more...]

Do It Again

How did it start?. The mood at the dinner party had been so light and fun. She watched him take off the tie and undo his top button. Making love to him had always been so easy. Sometimes it was the stuff of love songs other times it was like coming home. She places a stack of plates on top of the dishwasher. He takes her by the waist and turns her around, her back to the … [Read more...]

Brat Attack

My partner can be a bit of a brat. She talks back, gives grief, teases, pokes, but only to her friends, and certainly not with me. Oh no! She certainly isn’t a brat with me. She has learnt not to do that. Some of our kinky friends will look plaintively at me when she is ripping them a new one, seeking some sort of dominant solidarity, imploring me to make her stop, others will … [Read more...]

This week in kink news: October 28, 2019

Ever wonder what to do with a long weekend? Click here to get some sexy ideas Learn about how Shibari can help empower women https://www.theguardian.com/stage/2019/oct/07/empower-women-everything-i-see-i-swallow-shibari Discrimination and biases holds those in our community back Click here to read more Have some kinky news to share? … [Read more...]