Archives for November 2019

This week in kink news: Nov 25, 2019

KINKY KARAOKE! Come SING on STAGE! Come SING along from the TABLES!! Come BEAT some BOOTY while friends sing to the BEAT of their favorite song! Have a drink with FRIENDS and get SILLY! That’s right….KARAOKE NIGHT AT THE DUNGEON!! Jenn / lostnfound1 is excited to host a one of a kind play party! Fantastic professional Karaoke DJ will be in the house!! Special … [Read more...]


He's back in town. So many hate the rotation. The time between, no email, no phone calls,  nothing creates longing. Then the message- "Can I see you?" He knows the answer. Nevertheless, he always asks. My heart lifts, maybe a bit more than it should, for a friend I only get to see for a few hours. Those hours are complete. I am his and his alone, the clock stops, and we weave … [Read more...]


As someone who has always heavily landed in the BDSM camp, I've eyed swingers with some dubious hesitation for a long time. My first experience was at a long-closed swingers club I went to not knowing what it was.  I had some couple try to pick me up, but I wasn't particularly open-minded about my bisexuality back then, and I politely danced my way through the evening solo.  I … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  I was recently having a conversation with a friend on FetLife, who was lamenting that none of the women he met have been willing … [Read more...]

Ask Baadmaster

Reader: When punishing your slave, is it important to use a device that has never been used for pleasure? If not, how can that punishment be given without it being pleasurable? This is a common delimma that both beginners and not-so-beginners face.  The best way to answer this question is to answer it with a question: What is the purpose of punishment?  If it is for training … [Read more...]