Archives for December 2019

Party Time

On the bed were her matching lace bra and panty set and the green velvet dress. Its scoop neck accentuated her cleavage, and it was snug enough that her left thigh was exposed by the split. She toweled herself off, careful of the belly chain and locket that encircled her waist. Karen liked their little secret. Cal had presented it to her a few weeks after they had started … [Read more...]

Because They Don’t Know What They Don’t Know

Is there some kind of step by step list for negotiating? came the text. I rolled my eyes and sighed a bit.  I'm not sure why some people think I'm sweetness and light, with answers like Google.  I'm more an odd blend of snark and obedience, but more of the sass to those who don't command the latter. Of course, when it comes to answers, it's important to me to either share … [Read more...]

Negotiations With Myself

Negotiations are a fundamental part of kink.  But, it is more than just telling someone what you want.  It is the ability to get in touch with yourself.  It is the insight to understanding your own needs and wants as well as that of your partner(s).  It is the chance to delve into the depths of your own mind and learn exactly who you are. It sounds ominous to define … [Read more...]

Rika’s Lair- At The Tip Of My Finger…Literally

I hope you have been enjoying Rika’s Lair, my monthly column dedicated to thoughts and experiences regarding power dynamics in Service-Oriented D/s relationships. Look up “Ms. Rika” in the search box for links to all of my articles in KinkWeekly!  I’m usually focused on the intent of activity rather than the activity itself. However, today I feel like sharing a little … [Read more...]

This week in kink news: December 29, 2019

Check out this awesome article on consent! https://10daily.com.au/news/crime/a191203rbpyc/dominatrix-says-sexual-consent-is-never-a-grey-area-no-matter-how-rough-20191213 Don't miss learning more about Shibari! Click here to learn more Ever heard of sounding? Click here to find out more Have some kinky news to share? Tell us about … [Read more...]