The Fine Art Of Flirting

I've often said that I believe flirting should be treated as a fine art. It is not something one can wander into with no experience, no clear objective, and certainly no quips on hand. For me when I am flirted with it either goes into one of two categories: 1) Nice try bum. Next! or 2) Well what do we have here? Those are my only two mental reactions. One of them will lead to … [Read more...]

Mommy’s Good Boy

When I entered the room it was just as I had requested: panties and stockings laid out on the bed. I turned to look at him standing in the doorway, still dressed from the day. He was trying not to blush, his deep brown eyes pleading in my direction. I curled my finger up and motioned. "Come here," I purred. His bare feet shuffled on the wooden floors as he crept closer. … [Read more...]

Hardwired For Hardware

Years ago I had a very unique and private photography job. I trekked into Washington, DC to an old row house just on the outskirts of the city. A significantly older woman than I was expecting answered. When she saw me she greeted me in but also expressed that I was much younger than she thought. After some small talk she said in a completely serious tone, "Can you just make … [Read more...]

Is Anyone Still Having Fun?

An issue is a growing not only in my own local community but across the whole of BDSM communities alike. It’s an issue that is increasingly giving me pause in attending events and placing myself within reach of certain individuals. Have a seat and let’s talk about consent. Yes, we’re having this talk. Yes you need to pay attention. And yes, you might have already violated … [Read more...]

There Is No Bad Blowjob

Every person who takes the liberty of going down on a someone thinks that their technique needs no work. That the receiver, should be grateful that someone even went down on them. All of this is true but there's even more. Let's review what can be done to enhance your blowjob experience no matter your role. So let's dive in: FACT Blowjobs are a lot a work but can … [Read more...]