Schools of Thought

There has been a tremendous, and woefully misplaced, push to homogenize everything d/s and bdsm so that it mirrors how things are done in non-d/s and non-kink relationships. The “nillification” of kink and alternative relationships. It’s quite the hypocrisy, since alternative means DIFFERENT from the norm. Consent must always be exactly the same for everyone at all times, … [Read more...]

Slave To A Goddess

Excerpt from DameTylerRose’s upcoming novel DREAM ON (expected in May). “How may I please you, Empress?” he asked. “With your mouth and your hands until I can’t cum anymore.” He smiled and hopped to his feet. “That could take hours.” “Indeed,” she replied, dropping the slinky nightgown onto the floor. She sat on the edge of the bed, bringing a foot up to open … [Read more...]

Twelve Lessons of BDSM

Anyone who has known me for any length of time knows that I’m something of a philosopher. I have always been about the Why even more so than the How. How is easy. Floggings and spankings and fucking and bringing a plate of food and a cup of tea and Yes, Master and doing my best to help him through a rough day. That stuff was always easy for me. WHY can be much more … [Read more...]

Master Rigio’s Fist

“Look at me.” Eyes open and locked onto his, no expression, awaiting orders or a scolding for some unknown transgression. “I heard what you said to Lady Boldon about being happy with what I provide you. It pleases me that you are happy, Peeper. I am not going to ride you through every room of the apartment. Instead I will give you the promised clitoral climax in reward … [Read more...]

BDSM Activity Discussion Sheet

A couple years ago, someone posted an idea he’d had for a new way to conduct activity negotiations and discussions. Instead of the standard Will do/Not do & Hard Limit list, the list he came up with contained qualifiers for liking or not liking a thing. Unfortunately, that person completely vanished, so I could not reach out to collaborate. I didn’t remember exactly his … [Read more...]